love

so


study-check


bath and change clothes-check (wearing korean pants at the mo..don't think i look too bad in it-will post up pics later)


mia-chan's needs-check (babies needs LOTS of sleep)


gossiping with mum-check


my mum is pure AWESOMENESS


she beats majalah WANITA.. gazillions of stories...all sorts-men, women's health, education, marital issues, fashion, gossip..u name it


give mum one topic-she can elaborate on it for hours..all u have to do is listen and nod from time to time (mum is the easiest sleeper i know..have to act like u 're interested or she's off to dream land in no time)


because i'm now a full grown women..married and have a child and all; our conversation tend to steer towards women's issues


and because marriage had change too much of me, i get teary-eyed and sensitive in these things


marriage is an effort...can't keep still and just hope for the best


being a young couple makes it the more difficult..so many obstacles, so many outside influences, so hard to get use to each other


a young couple i don't know had just went their separate ways after the birth of their first child :(... CREEPY is the word i'd use.


why? is it possible to decide not to like each other AFTER u have loved and give your everything to the other person? is it possible for LOVE to stay so short?


also


is it possible to stop loving just because someone else said not too? no matter who that person is ie mother, sister,brother..would u turn back on ur wife and newborn baby because they said so? how could man be so cruel...


i too LOVE my family..a LOVE that cannot be bound to space and time..but loving and following unconditionally is different. we all are equipped with a BRAIN and VOICE


can say NO when needed to


if its wrong..can't u say it? what's the use of being the head of the family if u can't advise ur own wife and child?


if it's a misunderstanding, can't u work a little bit to solve it?


i LOVE mia-chan, hubby and family and wish these kind of things will never visit our life


MEN out there..be BRAVE, be BOLD, be SMART


don't let something that precious go to waste


tapi...


KALAU TAK SUKA, PULANGKAN BALIK (but that's another story..)